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Tracy Gatten
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I am continually inspired by the story of Ophelia (Shakespeare’s character in Hamlet) but rather than heavy dresses, I envision her with wings. I liken her to a butterfly, once wrapped in a cocoon of dresses, she emerges forth with new vision & voice. I am no good at small talk but I enjoy explori...
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What's holding you up?

Friday, August, 22, 2008
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Dear femmes & flowers: I bought my first pair of maternity pants today, the kind with the wide, s-t-r-e-t-c-h-y waist band. I've been very eager to buy these. Today's fashion tops with the empire waists & rouching translate very easily to maternity wear; although, the pants don't convert quite as well to a growing belly without the help of rubber bands wrapped & threaded around the button. For me, the pants make the pregnancy official!

I've been very health conscious during this pregnancy & feel confident my decisions & sacrifices will positively affect my baby; although, occasionally I feel as though I'm being judged, measured against an orange when I'm clearly an apple. And the apple is a good analogy for my lifestyle --- pomaceous, broad, pure, raw, consistent, effortless, physical & real. More so than ever I'm trying to live organically so that this life inside me can flourish. My now sparse make-up routine includes organic products; I use Burt's Bees soaps & shampoo; I gave up diet Coke & nailpolish; I walk two to three times a day; & my meals include ample portions & well rounded selections. I am making daily changes & changing daily.

Just recently I came across the program for Eve Ensler's, The Good Body tucked away in a drawer (my mom & I saw her perform in 2006!) & I happily remembered two characters from that performance. One was an elderly African Masai woman who saw the body as perfect, because we are made in the image of God. And the other was an Indian woman who was proud of her curves & fat belly, because it held up her sari. Both were happy & full women, despite wrinkles, stretch marks & other blemishes. During this remarkable time of my life, I want to be happy & full too. Full enough to hold up my maternity pants!

Take some time today to appreciate your Good Body! ~tracy

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Tracy Gatten is an artist, a writer, an interior designer, a philosopher & a traveler. She pays the bills with her work as an admin. asst. She lives & works in a small river town in southern Minnesota & is married to her best friend. She is expecting their first child, due January 2009. Feel free to contact her via email, t.m.gatten@gmail.com.


krrobi
krrobi
Posted Fri, 08/22/2008 - 17:54
How blessed you are to be buying maternity pants!!!!! I am dead serious. And I loooove Ensler. She makes us(Women) feel good about ourselves, and girl, we need this despartely in today's superficial society! :) Love your curves!!! But especially, show off your baby-tummy!
sarahthequeen05
sarahthequeen05
Posted Sun, 08/24/2008 - 08:40
You rock! Yay for celebrating our roundness or lack thereof- whatever we look like!
Tracy Gatten
Tracy Gatten
Posted Tue, 09/02/2008 - 10:07
Thank you for your note Sarah! Yes, we need to celebrate our bodies. And to you dear, "May the Spirit of Wholeness be with you awakening healing power within. May the Spirit of Harmony restore rhythms of body, mind and spirit. May Love touch you & strengthen you." (-Pat Bergen) Take care you!!
ReneeCK
ReneeCK
Posted Sun, 08/24/2008 - 11:08
While you're buying things, buy a pregnancy journal. There are ones with tips on what to write but if you know what you're doing, then get a blank one and GO!

Enjoy every minute of sharing yourself with that baby. No matter what, you'll never get this pregnancy back again.

And what? Tossing your cookies didn't make it real?! ;)
Tracy Gatten
Tracy Gatten
Posted Tue, 09/02/2008 - 10:00
Thank you for this suggestion! This is a wonderful idea. Indeed, this is a wonderful time I will want to remember & share. Thankfully, I was one of the few women who didn't toss my cookies during the first trimester so that pants were my claim to this experience!