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Living Small

Sunday, July, 20, 2008

Time Magazine published an article in their June 16th edition that spiked my curiosity about an increasingly visible phenomenon- trimming your posessional fat and living small. In “The 100 Thing Challenge” author Lisa McLaughlin writes about a new movement to whittle your possessions down to a 100 things or less.


    “‘It comes down to the products vs. promise,’ says the organizational consultant Peter Walsh, who characterizes himself as part contractor, part therapist. ‘It’s not necessarily about the new pots and pans but the idea of the cozy family meals they will provide. People are finding that their homes are full of stuff, but their lives are littered with unfulfilled promises.’”


    The last part of the quote really haunts me. Do we hang onto things to pad ourselves with commercial protection against the world? Are we retreating into our piles of things searching for fulfillment and comfort? Or worse, are we buying things for a life we wish we had?


    A notorious packrat from a young age, when my family moved at age 10, I bagged gravel from my school playground to take with me. I may or may not still have it… Objects don’t just represent memories but moreover, can represent our intentions.


    Arrived with the looming possibility of an economic recession, some Americans are taking to their closets, tool sheds and garages in attempt to retreat into a simpler, less complicated, less capitalist world. Has anyone tried this or is struggling with letting go?


alison skirtboston
alison skirtboston
Posted Sun, 07/20/2008 - 17:10
great image of you as a 10-year-old struggling to deal with moving by taking part of the playground with you! does it make you wonder if the rest of us are doing something similar with our hoarded belongings -- trying to make sense of a fast-paced world where having the right stuff represents "keeping up" with everyone else? Is it the stuff itself that we have to let go of, or do we really have to learn how to let go of the perceived need for this stuff? I think a big part of the issue is that cool stuff means we're above average in some way, and nobody in this country can settle for average grades, average televisions ... average anything ... especially when it only takes the swipe of a credit card to rise to the top. Momentarily.
AmpItUp
AmpItUp
Posted Mon, 07/21/2008 - 07:45
When I was a kid, I went to 13 different schools, and with each of these schools came a move and a new place to live. With each move, we whittled down our possessions one more time to what we considered the bare essentials. One day I caught my mother throwing away some of her record albums, records that had become some of my favorites: The Beatles white album, Paul Simon's Kodachrome, Donovan's Greatest Hits, Elton John's Honky Chateau. These were the records we cleaned the house to on Saturday mornings, the ones I sang to, the ones I knew all the words to. These and a few others were re-packed in one of my boxes, and now hang framed on a wall in my living room. Some things are meant to be cherished. Now I am in the midst of a move from Miami to SC, and all of those years of whittling have served me well. In my current house, it allowed me to convert a hall closet into a larger bathroom for the master bedroom. And now the things that were in that closet are just...gone. Makes it easier to pack. I've often said that if I didn't need a car or a house, I wouldn't have even them. The less the better. Things, if you care too much about them, become weights. Better to let them go. Even those framed records will have to go sometime....
Tricia
Tricia
Posted Mon, 07/21/2008 - 13:04
This is a great post. I'm not really purging, but I do find that I'm more conscientious lately of what I choose to bring into my home versus what I can re purpose. Part of it is the economic uncertainty, part of it is a bombardment of green marketing messages seeping into my head, and part of it just feels good to be less materialistic.

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onetwothreebirds
onetwothreebirds
Posted Mon, 07/21/2008 - 21:10
First, let me confess: I've never been a packrat or sentimental about stuff. But, when my home was robbed a few summers ago I discovered my true attachment to stuff. And, you know what I realized? There are only a small handful of things in my life that really mean a lot to me: my Great-Grandmothers box of letters, a coin from my deceased childhood friend, a dollar made into a ring by a childhood hero, a gift from a flute student (who is now a friend). The rest was just stuff, and most of it was gone. But, I was O.K. That's what mattered, right? So my bacon, vibrator, TV and flute were gone (when I tell people they stole everything, I mean EVERYthing)-- I was (am) O.K. Stuff breaks, stuff gets lost or stolen, stuff gets misplaced, stuff collects dust. Stuff is just stuff, it's not memories. Rhi B. rhibowman.wordpress.com