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United States of Outta Control

Wednesday, October, 8, 2008

Sometimes I feel that, just as there does not seem to be a presidential candidate ideally suited for me, I only have the option to live in The United States of Do For Me or the United States of My Way.

In the USDFM, there is a prevailing mentality that my government should and must take care of my every need. Sure, in the end, I pay through the nose in taxes, and will vote into office time and again those who say raising the amount I must shed from my own fiercely earned paycheck is the way to increase (or heaven help us, at least preserve) my standard of living and decrease the choices I must (or can) make for myself and those I love. But I still convince myself that I want a cost-effective government and I’m a rebel and would join the Boston Tea Party, given the chance. I convince myself I’m free, even as I extend my wrists for the chains.

In the USMW, the reigning majority refuses to see any other side of the coin but their own and cannot fathom that others don’t support rewarding They Who Have Figured Out How To Make Money. After all, the era of trickle-down Reaganomics ushered in a time of unprecedented prosperity (for They Who Figured Out How To Make Money) and They want to continue to rule the land as they sit on their heaps of golden largesse and smile at how well things work out when you play your cards right. And why shouldn’t They? They earned it, right? Everyone had the same chance. Sure, intellect, socioeconomic access to private education and family circumstance factored in. But didn’t even Obama, whose mother was single and on welfare, come from deep disadvantage and overcome even perceived racial discrimination to excel financially and politically? It is possible and the masses should be expected to make the same effort and let the system work as it can at its best. The rest be damned.

In the USDFM, we are told we should trust the same government that routinely spends money like it is bottomless and coming from someone else’s pocket. I mean once you owe several trillion (might as well say gazillion) dollars, does it really matter if the next toilet seat factors in a few extra thousand dollars for its minority producer? Sure, the partisan leader will potentially change hands in each election and the hope is a new king or queen will change the status quo, but the decay is insidious and deep within the inner workings of entitlement, isn’t it? For so long, the government, regardless of political party in charge, has felt entitled to spend as it pleased, to engage consultants and entertain special interest groups and explore better ways while spending bigger dollars and rewarding their own crony meal tickets that they are locked in a maze with no apparent exit. Somehow they are also going to tackle the enormity of a renovated healthcare system, available to all, and despite the reality that nothing in government has been efficient or cost effective, this will be different and children and old folks will no longer have snotty noses or die without humane access to skyrocketing treatment. And instead of higher healthcare expenses, we will somehow be able to afford higher taxes.

In the USMW, taxes are cut and so are programs that help children who will grow up eventually to be poorly prepared to sort through the mess they have been left. No matter. Folks should learn to do for themselves. The private sector will find its own perfect balance. So will kids and seniors. As for healthcare, everyone (who can afford it) should have their own doctor and a chicken in every pot and a big stick to carry and… wait… gee it all gets so muddled. Well, we really need to resolve this Medicare mess but that just might mean fewer benefits for the kids who cough in the night and burn feverishly while their deadbeat parents look helplessly on. I’m sure it will all work out for them somehow. To show how big we are, we will even extend five thousand big ones to offset those medical bills. (If you’ve been to a specialist lately for anything more serious than a sniffle, you know how far that will take you.)

USDFM says bring our troops home. Yes, we will help where we can in the world, but only when the stars align and we can clearly see public sentiment rallying to save the children being raped in the streets. We chased a madman and lost and need to save face and regroup and pick another conquerable region on another day. Return our soldiers to their families and let them begin to figure out how to resume their lives in a world with no jobs before they have no lives to offer.

USMW says we may have gotten ourselves into this mess to make a dramatic statement after our national tragedy and, yes, we expected our popularity ratings to soar and economy to surge (thereby causing our ratings to soar even higher), but this is no time to leave. There are other world powers interested in filling the gaps we vacate and we’d rather they not align with the enemy, thank you very much. So we’ll just have to stay and continue to tackle something that has tangled beyond recovery and we’ll offer genuine condolences at the soldiers lost and writhing family pain.

Sigh.

Need I go on? There is no perfect world and no perfect candidate and no perfect party and no perfect solutions. (Well, there is the Fair Tax movement (www.fairtax.org), but no one wants to seriously weigh that, because it would require... gasp!... change! Funny how embracing that word can be so fickle. And, yes, any change requires evolution and is inherently imperfect. It allegedly took time for man to drop gills, too.)

Sometimes I believe we would be best served if we could revert to the old problems, where a victory garden and a strong military and smaller government and honest manual labor jobs and steady work ethic kept things simple. But that was a mirage, too, wasn’t it? Families still went hungry and soldiers were murdered or came home scarred inside and out, but didn’t talk about it – they just drank a lot and beat their families behind closed doors or watched grimly as others did the same. Doctors charged less, but people died more and jobs faded away and people left their farms and filed to the cities and crime and welfare prospered and …

…well, and here we are.

The world is a mess. What we need is a perfect candidate.

Anyone in the mood to pray?

No? Well, go ahead and vote. (I’m not kidding. Everyone needs to vote.) Just please don’t expect that to solve everything.

Without God (and the life changes that would inspire and the wisdom and genuine collaboration, inside politics and beyond, that would follow), we’ll be lucky if it solves anything.


ReneeCK
ReneeCK
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 11:20
I am constantly amazed at people who are begging for leaders to tell us what they will do, specifically, when they are in office. The last time I checked, this is a democracy so regardless of how much someONE wants to do something, there is a check and balance system in place. It's good and it's bad. Even if we had the perfect president, s/he wouldn't be able to get everything in his/her agenda passed because there are those who would not agree, would want limitations, and in the end, would leave us halfway to where we should be.

I was once accused of being a socialist in a public forum. At the time I took great offense. But, as I researched, I realized, yeah, I like socialism. Basic rights such as health care, education, and retirement (to a point) are paid for by those who use the system, in the case of education, have used the system, and in the case of retirement, will use the system. I don't have a problem with government ensuring that those things are managed in an intelligent way. And I appreciate being able to decide who it is that is intelligent enough to make those choices. Certainly letting the country run itself via deregulation isn't working. My husband worked for a subprime lender- I know first hand of the greed that came from allowing the borrowing regulations to be as relaxed as an 18 year old on spring break. Yeah, there's going to be corruption, and the idealistic me wants to believe that the three party system would combat that corruption.

Nothing and noONE is perfect, therefore we all must have our voices heard. From there will come the best solution.
Renee- writer and WOMAN!
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 13:24
Renee, you approach the heart of my point. All voices should be heard... because there is wisdom in each of us. But unless there is unity and genuine desire to work together, laying aside what hasn't worked and certainly isn't going to magically work in the future, then perceiving what perhaps can only be divine solution, we could have 20 parties and no one will ever LISTEN long enough (remember Vanessa's rant yesterday?) for anyone to truly be HEARD. Everyone wants to speak up... and be heard... but who wants to collaborate? That would take a revolutionary (hmm... even spiritual?) change of heart. "Trust Life's unfolding..."
sarahthequeen05
sarahthequeen05
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 11:57
I think, once my treatments are finished that I might move to Tuvalu, where I've read they still use rocks for currency and barter with farm animals. I think it would be safer. :)
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 12:01
They do WHAT with farm animals?? Oh... barter... heehee... and hey, if you've ever been to a suburban football game, you'll know that women in America still use rocks to demonstrate wealth! "Trust Life's unfolding..."
sarahthequeen05
sarahthequeen05
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 13:21
I love the line about football games. 'Tis true, 'tis true. I laughed out loud. Tuvalu is gorgeous, but they are also at awful risk from rising ocean waters due to global warming- their little islands could be the first to be completely submerged. Very sad.
krrobi
krrobi
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 12:09
Once again, you go out on the ledge, all by yourself! Yes, there is NO PERFECT SOLUTION, NO PERFECT CANDIDATE. We are all soooo very imperfect and sinful and spoiled. Aren't we? And I do agree about God...He is the Perfect Solution...And in theory, this all sounds so wonderful... but haven't you heard, people don't care about GOD, they don't listen to GOD; they only care about what they see inside the mirror. Until we are all on the same page--Republicans and Democrats, even about the little things, nothing will change. Ever. Because, you see, people in general, are only interested in their own issues, beliefs and themselves. Of course, except ME! Great Post! :)
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 12:17
Your "Of course, except ME!" cracked me up! Exempting ourselves is wonderful, isn't it? Oh how I wish I had better answers. It's one reason I actually do get down on my knees and pray... and read... and research... and tune in... and observe... and listen... and pray some more... and act... and eat chocolate... "Trust Life's unfolding..."
onetwothreebirds
onetwothreebirds
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 13:02

I agree with you. There is no single solution and our government, and world, is deeply flawed.

What is wonderful about this election is that people are paying attention and voicing their opinions. What is wonderful about this country is that we have elections and we can voice our opinions.

My hope is that once the everyone has voted, once the election is decided and the new team is in office that we do not loose this passion for paying attention. My hope is that we, as a people, will continue to be in regular contact with our elected representatives and that we will make it clear to them that we are keeping our eye on them and that we will make sure they know how we want them to participate in this representative Democracy on our behalf.

It is our right, as Americans, to speak up, listen up and act up... so, let's do it!

Excellent, excellent post. Thank you.

http://rhibowman.wordpress.com/speak-up-listen-up-act-up/

~ Rhi B.
http://rhibowman.wordpress.com

getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 13:14
::standing off to one side, applauding:: Yep, what you just said! Passion is beautiful during the frenzy of an election, but keeping relentless focus on the pulse and agenda of politicians in our only hope for enacting worthy change! "Trust Life's unfolding..."
Jodene
Jodene
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 16:42
So I read this right after I read about the lovely $400,000 retreat for the big boys at AIG AFTER the bail out. I wanted to scream! How dare they? People close by are literally killing themselves (heard about the man who shot himself, wife, 3 boys and mother in law due to finances?? less than 20 miles from me) due to the financial mess- and the wealthy bastards are getting pedicures. No- there is no ideal candidate and I feel like we can't afford another 8 years of Bush'isms/ish- so I put my vote on Hope.
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 17:20
AIG and the post-Bailout getaway is a perfect example of the ridiculous disconnect that exists between government spending and our money. Quite frankly, I was against the bailout, though I knew it would mean grim times. I'm so tired of watching as crappy choices are heaped upon crappy choices. Adding that level of debt to OUR deficit just seemed a fresh disaster in the making. Time will tell... (and perhaps AIG just did!) Sometimes I wish I could replace my smiling profile pic (what do you call those again?) with a deeply scowling one. This is one of those moments. "Trust Life's unfolding..."
vlmccauley
vlmccauley
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 18:17
I often tell my husband, "one day when I rule the world...." Maybe it is time. We need, we must require more.
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 18:43
You mean you don't rule the world already? Dang. I'm gonna have to take down the posters... ;-) Come back to Twitter... I've been leaving ya messages all day. "Trust Life's unfolding..."