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Hey You, With the Boobs. Are YOU Registered to Vote?

Wednesday, September, 17, 2008

I got an email last weekend from a friend that talked about the extreme sacrifices our foremothers made and horrendous treament they suffered, all for the right for us to be able to vote. 

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I know, it seems like such a silly thing. You get 2 hours off of work to do it.  It’s twisted and confusing. There are smear tatics and broken campaign promises.  But, if you’re sitting around bitching about how things are in America and you didn’t vote, I don’t want to hear it.  Our last 2 elections have been won and lost by such narrow margins that if all those who make up excuses as to why they can’t vote had actually voted, things may be very different today.  It also seems that with the electoral college in place, your vote doesn’t even count- but that’s not true either.  Every electoral vote in a state is placed for the person who wins the majority of votes in that state.  I am very anxious for November to get here when the state of Georgia’s 15 typically republican electors are forced to put all 15 of those votes in the democratic box because the majority of Georgians voted for Obama. 

But, us as women, we have an even more important reason to vote.  It took a lot for us to be able to have the privledge to make a choice for ourselves. To be able to stand up and be counted.

A short history.  Anyone know who Lydia Taft was?  She was the first legal woman voter in America.  Know what year that was?  1920?  1915?  1895?  Nope. She voted at least three times between 1756 and 1768.  The reason she was able to vote?  Because she was Mrs. Josiah Taft.  Upon Joe’s passing, she was given the right to vote as his proxy.  Still, I don’t find it fair that you have to marry and lose a property-owning husband in order to vote.  Neither did the suffragettes. 

One of the suffragettes, Lucy Burns, was force-fed by five people holding her down and when she refused to open her mouth, her jailors shoved a feeding tube through her nostril.  She was most likely tortured as well.

Speaking of torture, do you know what happened November 15, 1917?  Our strong women dared to picket Woodrow Wilson’s White House, hold marches, and stage protests.  Women were arrested beginning in June and once women were released from prision, they returned to march.  November 15, 1917, 33 protestors were re-arrested and taken to the Occoquan Workhouse, a prison known for serving rancid food, colorless slop infested with worms. Women were only given water from an open bucket.  They were denied medical care.  And treatment was harsh under Occoquan’s superintendent, W.H. Whittaker.

Feminist Sonia Pressman Fuentes documents this history in her article on Alice Paul. She includes this re-telling of the story of Occoquan Workhouse's "Night of Terror," November 15, 1917:

Under orders from W. H. Whittaker, superintendent of the Occoquan Workhouse, as many as forty guards with clubs went on a rampage, brutalizing thirty-three jailed suffragists. They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head, and left her there for the night. They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed, and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate Alice Cosu, who believed Mrs. Lewis to be dead, suffered a heart attack. According to affidavits, other women were grabbed, dragged, beaten, choked, slammed, pinched, twisted, and kicked.

These women suffered so much in order to bring attention to the issue and earn us the privledge to vote.  And for us to say we’re too busy volunteering, keeping a home, working, or any of the other things that we can use as an excuse to keep from voting is simply unacceptable.  If you haven’t registered to vote, google online voter registration and find a place.  If you want me to make it easier, Declare Yourself has a wonderful website, albeit targeted to young voters, that provides information about voting, the election, and how to get registered. If you want to cut to the chase, I’ve even done that for you- the register to vote link can be found right here. I’ve done everything but fill out the form for you. 

Our foremothers did the hardest part- do not let their fight be in vain.  Stand up and be heard this election.  Do not silence yourself.  Do not ignore your duty to your country.  And do not let these wonderful women down.

For those who want to learn more about the Suffragettes, HBO has a wondeful movie, Iron Jawed Angels that tells the story.  The women were dubbed Iron Jawed Angels because, like Lucy Barnes, they would not open their mouths to eat the slop they were being fed.  Tough broads!  Have I seen it yet?  No, and probably won’t because I would be tossing my own cookies seeing them try to force feed the women.  But, if you can stomach it, I encourage you to watch.

VOTE!
Renee



BCBlogger
BCBlogger
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 08:01
Thanks for an information filled blog on the subject! And thanks for encouraging people to vote. Every time I hear someone say that they "might not vote at all," I get FURIOUS. I'm forwarding them all a link to this blog.
krrobi
krrobi
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 10:11
WOW! I love learning new and interesting info! Thanks for doing all of this research, girl. When I hear somebody say they are not going to vote, I cannot, and will not, shut my big mouth. I don't care if it's a stanger in the line at the grocery store. I'm like, Are you a friggen idiot? I think that--but say this: "You're vote makes a difference. Go be part of the democratic process! It's exciting. There is no excuse not to vote. Be an example to your kids. It's America, go make a difference." If the person still says no, I have said " I can't talk to you right now. I really can't!" But what I want to say is this: You are a ignorant, idiotic fool-and part of our problem in this country!" Thanks Renee! You are awesome! I can't wait to vote!!!!!!!
Sara Conrad
Sara Conrad
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 13:43
Awesome post!! If any of you are in Jacksonville, join skirt! and encourage everyone and their sister to vote at Get out the Vote 2008! http://jacksonville.skirt.com/node/10596 ~Sara
jensjen
jensjen
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 14:16
I very much appreciated the article and the information. I do believe it is important to vote, but I believe that telling people they are stupid or they HAVE to vote goes against everything those woman fought for. I choose to do the things that are important to me, and who are any of you to judge if that is good enough for the foremothers or not? And the truth is, who are the foremothers to judge me on what is the best thing for me to do right now? As women, we do have a lot on our plates, and I am going to choose the things that I think are most important. I will not judge you if you don't do everything that I find important (work two jobs, take care of kids, etc.) Please don't judge me if I do those things, and I choose to not take the time to vote.
BCBlogger
BCBlogger
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 14:33
Hmmm. . .that is an interesting take on the situation. That a person would choose to not take the time to vote because of other obligations in her life . . .I haven't thought of it that way. I'm trying very hard to see it through your eyes, however, I can't seem to let go of the annoyance/anger it seems to give rise to in my heart. I know that people have a lot on their plates - especially with the economy the way it is these days. I guess that I feel that if people do not *exercise* their right to vote, then they are passively accepting the cirumstances as they are. And that's o.k., if one likes the circumstances as they are. I don't. And I'll vote in every election from local to presidential to try to do something about it. Even if I'm chasing windmills, I'm still trying, at least. Given today's current political climate, I guess it just surprises me that someone would actually choose not to vote. I don't understand it. And because I'm kinda dumb, what I don't understand makes me angry.
alison skirtboston
alison skirtboston
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 14:40
but I'm not going to listen to you (or others) whine when voting takes 10 minutes in most places. Turn off the television and just do it. Polls are open 12 hours. Take your kids (I do), tell your boss you're going to be 5 minutes late, or try an absentee ballot. Also, if you're nervous because you've never voted before, don't be. The polling place will have instructions for filling in the ballot, and there are people there who will help you. Of course, all of this is predicated on the assumption that you've found time to REGISTER TO VOTE. Here is a list of registration deadlines (many are in early October, so be aware!): http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/archives/individual/2008_09/014608.php
jensjen
jensjen
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 15:59
I have voted before. I may choose to vote this year too. And don't tell me you aren't judging me, when you say things like, "Turn off the TV." I don't actually own a TV. I don't mean to make excuses. I know that doesn't help either, but I guess I feel like I live in this country that gives me choices. And for someone to tell me I have to vote - goes against everything I believe in. Tell me its what you are choosing to do. Tell me its important to you. Tell me it makes you feel better knowing you are doing something to fight for what you believe in. Don't tell me I have to do it, because you think I have to do it. That is just not right! I have never thought of the absentee ballot - that might work. I appreciate the suggestion.
krrobi
krrobi
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 15:23
As a human being...it is our obligation to vote and be part of the democratic process. Being a woman has nothing to do with it, but being an American does. I am wondering why one would chose not to vote if they are able. I have a lot on my plate, too, with work, kids, sports, etc...but it literally takes one minute to vote and become part of the solution. I hope everybody takes time out of their busy schedule to vote (it's not difficult) I think a person would even come into one's home to help them with this issue if they could not fill in a the oval blank... or could not leave their children...if not, well, I really have no words....I just don't get it.
ReneeCK
ReneeCK
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 16:43
I checked back and nowhere in my post did I say you were stupid for not voting. I did say it is unacceptable- and this is why...

Because the people who run this country are elected by we the people. The very same we the people who have to live day to day in this country with the RIGHTS of having a lot on our plates. Glad the choice to wear a birka or not is your own? It took elected officials to maintain the US of A as a birka by choice country.

All those things that you find important are protected by the people you should be electing to do so. The amount of taxes coming out of those two paychecks, the tax credit you recieve for having children are all decided by elected officials. Two wonderful people in my life got married this past weekend- well, married in the made a commitment to each other sense- the people elected to office haven't deemed their love enough to be a legally recognized marriage simply because they are both women. They had the right to make a statement about it as they signed their healthcare directives and power of attorneys in their ceremony because they vote.

Again, not stupid. Simply unacceptable.
Renee- writer and WOMAN!
onetwothreebirds
onetwothreebirds
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 18:51

I'll be voting on Oct. 16 in North Carolina. Early voting begins three weeks before the big day. Forget lines, vote early!

~ Rhi B.
http://rhibowman.wordpress.com

Tara
Tara
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 20:51
You're right - there's a very real principle behind women's right to vote. That, and I can't stand people who complain but neglect to vote. Great post!
dannigirl
dannigirl
Posted Wed, 09/17/2008 - 21:10
Personally, I love to vote. I love that my voice can be heard, that I can contribute to something bigger than myself not only just in my community, but in the country as well. I was raised to be a good Christian girl. I have been taught that there are some things that are just unacceptable. One of them is judging others. I don't like the fact that people try to shove their beliefs and opinions on others. I see that you are practically crucifying that poor girl, jensjen. I may like to vote, and ideally, I would like everyone to vote as well, but we have no right to shove our beliefs on her, or anyone else. It is just not right to belittle others and call them unnecessary names. I really hope that if you are voting, you are smarter than that, and can see reason in allowing people to have their own opinions. That is what this whole voting system is set up to protect, isn't it? Would you rather force others to do your will and have a monarchy or even communism? I don't think so, so in fairness to everyone, and in fairness to all of the women who stood behind the great men who founded this country, lets give others the right to their own opinion. If someone is going to complain about it and do nothing to help change the situation or to make it better, then they have made their bed and they have slept in it. I would prefer to have educated people voting, people who know the issues, people who are going to make the best choices. I don't really want every person vote just because they feel they have to, and to select just anyone at random...that messes up the whole process and those of us who take our time to select the candidate that we feel is going to take care of us the best. So all in all, I really don't agree with anyone on here that is hurting others through their narrow mindedness and negligence to those values that this country was founded on. I however am going to go and vote every time I am allowed...but if I forget, am out of the country on vacation, hurt and in the hospital, or just plain forget, then I hope that you don't turn on me like a pack of wolves who smell fresh meat. Ladies, have an awesome day, and let's be more positive on here. Let's focus on something like why voting is special to each of us, and if anyone has some stories to share, then please, let's step up and share. Thanks again!!! --Dannigirl