Paper or Plastic?

Real women in L.A. often talk about the fake women in L.A.  We can’t believe men can really be attracted to collagen injected lips, silicone breasts, hair extensions, tattooed make-up or spray on tans.  Listen to the words associated with products that help women look like plastic dolls; make-up, what are they trying to make up for?  Cover up, again what are they trying to cover or conceal, there, another one, concealer.  Foundation, we all know how important a strong foundation is to building anything.  There is plenty of chatter around the subject of women and self esteem.  After all, look how many magazines are on the shelves telling women how to look better to ultimately attract men.

But what kind of men do we want to attract?  Real ones?  Men that have rough hands because they use them, thick eyebrows or chest hair because they have testosterone or maybe even a little gut because they carry weight in their stomachs.  Do we want a dream man or a real man?  I think if women focus on qualities instead of looks in themselves first then we can find our dream men right here on earth, while we are awake.  Now don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t kick Patrick Dempsey or Adrian Grenier out of bed for eating crackers but I don’t know too many men around here that look like them.  Funny, self assured, considerate, courageous, wise, talented people no matter what they look like should be revered.  Let’s celebrate all of our qualities, male and female and not judge each other on appearance.  And let’s get real!