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I have recently become a member of a club that I never imagined I would join.   It’s not because I was against everything this club stood for or that perhaps I was intimidated by the membership criteria (well maybe I was a bit intimidated), but it was because I just couldn’t imagine the opportunity would ever arise after so many years for me to be given such an exclusive membership. 

My invitation officially came in January of this year and I suppose you could say that I joined at that point, but didn’t get the full effects until September 28, 2011 when my son was officially brought into this world.  

I could never really imagine the perks that come along with owning a lifetime membership to the Mommy Club, but I’ve definitely come to relish and take advantage of each one.   There’s an entire side of me that I never thought existed, a side of me that I feel like I’ve perhaps pushed down deep into the confines of my soul, a side of me that I never wanted anyone else to see or for me to experience.  Things that were once so important to me quickly have become secondary and I must admit I haven’t fought the transition.  I’ve embraced it with open arms as if I’ve won the lottery. 

I find myself excited about sharing my experiences with other mothers.  I love having a reason to talk about my child.  I shamelessly post updates on Facebook and send new pictures on an almost hourly basis to my in-laws and anyone who’ll humor my obsession.   I enjoy planning excursions with other mothers and thinking of new things to do with my son.  

My choice of reading material has changed drastically as I’ll gladly pick up a copy of American Baby or Parenting magazines.   The nights of feedings at 2 and 3 am, the diaper blow-outs that seem to seep out onto me, the spit-ups, and increased amounts of laundry are all definitely worth the sacrifices I’ve made to punch my membership card.  

And the greatest part of this club?  Looking into my son’s eyes, seeing him smile, feeling his soft hand wrapped around my pinky, and knowing that he’s mine and no love could ever be stronger.  

So for those of you questioning whether you want to join a club with so many advantages and the ability to make you feel better than you ever have in your life, let me be your mentor and encourage your membership.  It is indeed the greatest experience you’ll ever have.