Turn your brain inside out - think about sex

 Well, ok, maybe you think about sex all the time, and it's no big deal.  We're not here to judge.

But - if you want to think about sex in a whole new way, where sex = sex but also = power, influence, rules, craziness, read Kelly Diels' meditation at Cleavage.  It's sexy and refreshing and makes you think about stuff other than sex and about how power works and how your brain works.  At least, it did for me.  Check it out.